Worried Black Woman
Worried Black Woman
This worried woman is in a dilemma

“Dear Editor,
My name is Clara, a 32-year-old woman. I am a single mother of two and I have been taking care of them all alone for the past seven years after my husband left me for another woman.
It is not as if I have not tried to get into relationships but they never work out and in the end, I prefer being on my own.
Most of my family members and friends believe I should get married because that is the only thing that would give me respect in the society but I have rebuffed all attempts because I have seen so much in the hands of men.
My problem now is that my younger sister’s husband, Kenny, is an incurable flirt and does not even hide it. I am sure my sister does not know what her husband gets up to because, at home, he pretends to be the perfect gentleman.
But once her back is turned, he becomes like a he-goat on the heat. We live in the same area so I know what Kenny gets up to though he thinks I do not know.
He has hit on some of my friends who always tell me about his approach to them. He even had the guts to try that rubbish on me at one time though he did not come out very openly but as a woman, I know when a man is trying to act funny with him.
My anger now is that Kenny is dating one older woman on my street and sneaks into her house at odd hours and sometimes, he spends the night in the woman’s apartment. Only God knows what he tells my sister when he gets home in the morning.
I am worried about my sister and I don’t know if I should tell her about her cheating husband. I know my sister very well. She would be broken and depressed because she loves Kenny so much.
Exposing her husband could end their marriage and I don’t want that as people will say that since I am a single mother, that was why I broke her marriage.
But my heart breaks when I see what Kenny is doing to her. What should I do?
Clara,
Lagos.”
Dear readers, having gone through Clara’s letter on True Confession today, you will agree she is in a dilemma. What do you think she should do?