I did 15 abortions – Matchmaker, Lara Kudayisi

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Matchmaker and relationship coach, Lara Kudayisi, said she aborted no fewer than fifteen pregnancies.

The relationship expert who disclosed this in an interview with Punch said she has forgiven the men who made her did the abortions.

“My relationship with God is fantastic. He is my friend, saviour and father. He is the one who directs me. Many people think that because I have done 15 abortions, I might be a bad girl or ungodly. God is very merciful and not judgmental like human beings. If one is remorseful and genuinely repentant after committing a sin, God will forgive that person and still make effective use of that person,” she said.

On her she deals with stereotype and stigmatisation, Kudayisi said, “All those things do not matter to me because I know what I am doing and I have healed. It does not define me because it is my past. I am no longer the person that did those abortions. So, criticisms about my past life do not get to me.”

She said her abortion story was what attracted her ex-husband to her. “I went public with my abortion story even before I got married. My ex-husband met me sharing my abortion story, which was what attracted him to me. My marriage had nothing to do with my past and this was the inspiration behind my book, ‘Why the Matchmaker’s Marriage Failed’.”

On being a single mom, the author said, “It is really not an easy thing. It can be quite challenging when one is the primary caregiver. However, it has taught me that I am resilient and can do many things that I never thought I could do in the past. I have also learnt that if one is not ready to have a child and that person does, it will have an effect in that person’s life forever. So, it is important that one has to be prepared before becoming a parent.”

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