My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous, and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
There’s this 19-year-old girl who got into the family way when she was 17. Whenever I see her, I feel so sad because of what may likely befall her and how her life is likely to have reversed, the pain she would have to deal with in relationships and its effect on her much-needed emotional stability to succeed in life except God intervenes. To think her situation could have been avoided if only her mum who also had her out of wedlock and who presently has no husband ensured her daughter pursued a life of holiness and destroyed the pattern from getting hold of her daughter! To think this woman is a prophetess!
Sadly, a lot of you keep falling into a trap that could mess up your entire existence on earth, a natural phenomenon that topples lives and has over time scuttled God’s fantastic plans for destinies. It has caused so much pain and distraction in unsuspecting lives that too many destinies never manifest because of a lack of power to nip the force in the bud. I’m talking about an evil family pattern! A family pattern can be described as a particular set of traits or characteristics in a bloodline or family that runs from generation to generation. The bad traits that form an evil family pattern could be promiscuity, polygamy, anger, domestic violence, marital mismatch, divorce, unstable marriages, having children out of wedlock, terminal diseases, untimely deaths, etc.
You’d recall David who we read was a man after God’s heart and the greatest of God’s warriors in the bible, who saved the children of God and fought wars from time to time, wrote the book of Psalms, and appeared to know God so well, so to say was polygamous. His uncontrollable lust for a woman- Bathsheba made him order the death of her husband- Uriah who was one of his soldiers, so he could marry her- not caring whose ox was gored, forgetting that would make him go against God and incur His wrath. Now, King Solomon his son, the wisest man ever to live and whose godly wisdom is expressed in his writings-the book of Proverbs practically went wild. A man in whom God was so delighted, who God visited and asked what he wanted, who got more than his request not only ended up marrying 700 wives, but he also had 300 concubines and eventually worshipped other gods. His father, David’s ancestry can be traced back to Judah who went in search of a prostitute and ended up sleeping with his daughter-in-law. Are you catching my drift? If those who were so important and useful to God were conquered by their evil family pattern, can you imagine the effect of such on one who is so spiritually dull and ignorant of the manipulative force of one’s ancestry?
Although I have seen some cases where the evil family pattern did not repeat itself in some lives, I have also seen where it completely damaged some destinies. I have seen where a mother who had two children with two different men and her daughter had 4 children with four different men by the time she was 30 years old. This was a very bright student until she went to write an examination in a city outside Lagos and all hell went loose. She had her first pregnancy at 16+ and all four fathers left her to her fate refusing to take care of the children. She can barely feed her kids least of all send them to proper schools. She is malnourished and worn out, looking 15 years older and trading in home-made liquid wash which can barely feed them all daily. What a waste of potential and opportunities!!!
If her mother especially (because her father was never involved in her upbringing) had firmly resisted her pattern repeating itself in her life right from her impressionable years, I’m sure she would have conquered it. This is a very serious matter! I pity a lot of girls whose parents have no time for the destiny and spirituality of their children, if care is not taken, they end up becoming liabilities instead of assets in their parents’ old age and that’s why you would find a lot of women in church almost daily, looking so sad and carrying the pictures of their grown and even middle-aged children! Is it any wonder Solomon said “Remember now your Creator in the days of your youth, Before the difficult days come, And the years draw near when you say, “I have no pleasure in them”…Ecclesiastes 12:1
Stay away from sex before marriage! You have no business with sex outside of marriage! Stop looking for trouble! May God’s axe of fire hack any evil family pattern growing in you in Jesus’ mighty name!
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